Question

I was wondering what the easiest method would be for me in the future to make queries both effective and less complex.

Should I save a two way relationship like

from_id=1, to_id=2
from_id=2, to_id=1

or just create one unique row

from_id=1, to_id=2

any thoughts?

Answer 1

I would suggest to go for two way relationship. It’s flexible ans it’s only extra work while inserting and deleteing the records.

The benefits that I see is:

• To get all friend of a person all you need to do is where from_id=userid instead of where from_id=userid or to_id=userid that later is expensive.
• you can keep extra metadata in forward and reverse relationship. Let’s say you have a case like userA is friend of userB while userB does not approves the relationship. To do this you may have an extra isApproved and set it true for from_id=userA, to_id=userB and false for from_id=userB, to_id=userA — this will allow further cheap sort and select.

  The effect in single row will be a little trickier.