I’m currently considering using java in one of my projects(for reasons unrelated to networking). At the moment I’m using C++ and a custom protocol built on top of UDP. My problem here is that while the added efficiency is nice for sending large amounts of realtime-data, I’d rather have something along the lines of RPCs for pure “logic actions” such as login. RPC’s in C++ are hard to do though, since standard C++ itself has no notion of serialization.
In another answer, I found Java’s RMI, which seems to be similar to RPCs, but I couldn’t find how efficient/responsive it is, nor whether it could be plugged into my existing UDP socket, since I don’t want to have two ports open on my server program.
Alternatively, since I think Java has serialization, I could implement RPC’s myself, depending on how straightforward deserializing an arbitrary stream of objects in java is. Still, if this would require me to spend days on learning the intrinsics of java, this wouldn’t be an option for me.
If you’re interested in RPC, there is always XML-RPC and JSON-RPC, both of which have free/open-source C++ implementations. Unfortunately, most of my development has been in Java, so I can’t speak to how usable or effective they are, but it might be something to look into since it sounds like you have already done some work in C++ and are comfortable with it. They also have Java implementations, so you might even be able to support both Java and C++ applications with XML-RPC or JSON-RPC, if you want to go down that route.
The only downside is that it looks like most of these use HTTP connections. One of the things you wanted to do was to reuse the existing connection. Now, I haven’t looked at all of the implementations, but the two that I looked at might not meet that requirement. Worst case is that perhaps you can get some ideas. Best case if that there might be another implementation out there somewhere that does what you need and you now have a starting point to find it.