I’m using the ExpressionDark theme for my WPF app, it has a custom style for MenuItems.
When a MenuItem is disabled it should use a gray style to reflect this, and it works for MenuItems inside the Menu control:

It does however not work for MenuItems that are in a ContextMenu (Copy is disabled)

I have tracked down the problem to the TextBlock style, if I remove this style it works for the ContextMenu, but other styles break with it removed
<Style TargetType="{x:Type TextBlock}">
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="{DynamicResource TextBrush}" />
</Style>
EDIT: It doesn’t matter if I use a MenuItem or my custom GestureMenuItem, but what do matter is if i use a _ char or not (For key shortcuts) If I remove _ then the style wont work in MainMenu either.
The relevant style for the MenuItem:
<Trigger Property="IsEnabled" Value="false">
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="{DynamicResource {x:Static SystemColors.GrayTextBrushKey}}" />
</Trigger>
Source code found here. The relevant ContextMenu XAML:
<TextBox x:Name="Text"
Height="Auto"
TextWrapping="Wrap"
VerticalScrollBarVisibility="Visible"
AcceptsReturn="True"
IsReadOnly="true">
<TextBox.ContextMenu>
<ContextMenu>
<MenuItem Header="Copy" Command="Copy">
<MenuItem.Icon>
<Image Source="{StaticResource IconCopy}"/>
</MenuItem.Icon>
</MenuItem>
<Separator></Separator>
<MenuItem cal:Message.Attach="Clear()" Header="Clear All">
<MenuItem.Icon>
<Image Source="{StaticResource IconDelete}"/>
</MenuItem.Icon>
</MenuItem>
</ContextMenu>
</TextBox.ContextMenu>
</TextBox>
MenuItems in working main menu (GestureMenuItem inherits MenuItem and uses same style):
<Menu IsMainMenu="True">
<Menu.Resources>
<Image x:Key="ViewIcon" x:Shared="false"
Source="{Binding Path=Icon}" />
</Menu.Resources>
<!-- Items here removed to shorten XAML -->
<MenuItem Header="_Script">
<common:GestureMenuItem x:Name="RunScript" Header="_Run script" Key="F5">
<MenuItem.Icon>
<Image Source="{StaticResource IconPlay}"/>
</MenuItem.Icon>
</common:GestureMenuItem>
<common:GestureMenuItem x:Name="StopScript" Header="_Stop script" Key="F5" Modifiers="Shift">
<MenuItem.Icon>
<Image Source="{StaticResource IconStop}"/>
</MenuItem.Icon>
</common:GestureMenuItem>
</MenuItem>
<!-- Items here removed to shorten XAML -->
</Menu>
Gesture item style:
<Style TargetType="{x:Type Caliburn:GestureMenuItem}" BasedOn="{StaticResource {x:Type MenuItem}}">
</Style>
I came up with a work around, it wont give the exact same style, but it works, should I go for it?
<Trigger Property="IsEnabled" Value="False">
<Setter Property="Opacity" Value="0.5"/>
</Trigger>
Both gesture text and icon is gray with this solution so maybe it a actually a better solution than just setting Forecolor to gray:

I solved it by replacing the Forecolor property setter with a Opacity property setter, this will also effect gesture text and icon which is also the default style’s way of doing it