Question

My table

ANONYMOUS
ONE   TWO
1      2
2      1
1      2
3      1

Now i want to select distinct set of one and two.
My selected list should be

ANONYMOUS
    ONE   TWO
    1      2
    3      1

Answer 1

Your question isn’t very clear, but I guess you mean this:

SELECT DISTINCT one, two
FROM yourtable AS T1
WHERE one <= two
OR NOT EXISTS
(
     SELECT *
     FROM yourtable AS T2
     WHERE T1.one = T2.two
     AND T1.two = T2.one
)

It finds rows with (one, two) where the reversed pair (two, one) does not exist. If both exist, it chooses the pair such that one < two. It also selects rows where the values are equal.

See it working online: sqlfiddle

If you would prefer to use a JOIN instead of NOT EXISTS you can do that:

SELECT DISTINCT T1.one, T1.two
FROM yourtable AS T1
LEFT JOIN yourtable AS T2
ON T1.one = T2.two
AND T1.two = T2.one
WHERE T1.one <= T1.two
OR T2.one IS NULL

See it working online: sqlfiddle