Simply put, if you had to use a IoC/DI container, thats easy to deploy (not a big fan of using config/xml file for everything), stable, good documentation and supports .net, which one would it be?
It could just be me but too many xml files like one for the app, a few for ORM, a few for another component kinda gets overwhelming at times. Also, the way I see it, if there is one way of doing things (convention) lesser the chances of messing things up.
Looking forward at your suggestions and if possible experiences. My main concern is maintainability and ease of deployment.
I use Ninject and StructureMap — both allow you to wire up your configuration without XML.
Not to be shamelessly promoting my site but I wrote a tutorial on using Ninject available here.